Common & Effective Bilingual Parenting Methods
Hi there, I’m Eliana, a bilingual pediatric speech-language pathologist and the owner of Monarch Speech and Language Institute here in Tulsa, Oklahoma.
I work with families every day who are raising bilingual children or are just beginning their bilingual journey- and one of the most common questions I get is: “What’s the best way to raise a bilingual child?”
Bilingualism is a powerful gift that connects children to their culture, family, and future opportunities. And the truth is -there’s no single “right” way to do it! The best method is the one that fits your family’s values, rhythms, and routines.
Here are some of the most common and effective bilingual parenting methods I often share with families:
1. One Parent, One Language (OPOL)
Each parent consistently speaks a different language with the child. For example, one parent always speaks Spanish, while the other speaks English. This method helps children clearly associate each language with a person, which can encourage balanced development in both.
2. Minority Language at Home (MLAH)
In this method, the language spoken at home is the one that’s less commonly used in the community. For example, a family might speak Spanish at home while the child hears English out in the world. This helps maintain and strengthen the minority language.
3. Two Parents, Two Languages
Both parents use both languages interchangeably, based on the setting or topic. It requires a little more planning and consistency, but it mirrors real-world language use and can be a great fit for multilingual households.
4. Time and Place
This flexible approach designates specific times or places for each language. You might use Spanish during mealtimes or bedtime, and English while out shopping or visiting the park. Children quickly learn what to expect and when.
5. Professional Guidance
Not sure if your child is meeting speech and language milestones in both languages? A bilingual SLP (like me!) can help you distinguish between a language delay and typical bilingual development. We're here to support your goals and answer your questions.
Tips to Encourage Bilingualism at Home, School, & in the Community
At Home:
Read books in both languages every day
Use music, routines, and pretend play in both languages
Label objects around the house in both languages
Be consistent, but don’t be afraid to have fun and be flexible!
At School:
Talk with your child’s teachers about your language goals
Request bilingual materials or support if needed
Encourage your child to be proud of both languages and use them with confidence
In the Community:
Attend bilingual story times or cultural festivals
Connect with other families raising bilingual kids
Visit restaurants, stores, or events where your home language is spoken
Bilingual parenting doesn’t have to be perfect—it just needs to be intentional. Whether you're just getting started or looking to strengthen what you're already doing, I’m here to cheer you on and guide you through it.
If you’re looking for more personalized support or have questions about your child’s language development, don’t hesitate to reach out.
With care,
Eliana Provenzano-Lewis, M.S.,CCC-SLP
Monarch Speech & Language Institute, LLC
